A WAY TO CHANGE WHAT YOU SEEM TO BE STUCK IN

A way to change what you seem to be stuck in:
 Did you know that for anything you think you don't like, for all the annoying, nagging things in your world, that you keep trying to change but that keep showing up, that you actually love some aspect of them? 

Yup. You love it, or you wouldn't keep creating it.

If you didn't love it, it wouldn't keep showing up. What you love about it is not cognitive. It doesn't make sense logically, because you're no longer in the situation that created it as valuable to you in the first place. 
                                          Ok. So, what do you do? 
Ask: What do I love about creating this exactly as it is?

YOu're going to have to be really honest with yourself and not make any of the things that come up significant.

these could be points of view you took in other lifetimes.

they could be something you decided when you were 2yrs. old.
they could be someone else's Point of view that you bought into with out realizing it.
Like I said, chances are good that they are not going to logical.
besides if your logical mind could have figured it out it would have done so...the crazy insane points of view are where the juicy bits are that can set you free.
Get all the energies or answers that this question brings up and then you clear them with the Access Clearing statement. 
(The beauty of this is that sometimes you can put words to these energies but you don't have to.  A lot of times there's  just energy that you are aware of.)

   *If you've never heard the Access Clearing statement, well, it's a bunch of weird words that clear the energy of whatever has been sticking you.*

 It goes like this: Uncreate and destroy all that (all the energy you just brought up with the question) Right, wrong, good, bad, all 9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyond. 

   I know, You're saying, "HUH?  that seems like a lot of words that I won't be able to remember...and I don't get it."
                       Thankfully you don't have to understand it for it to work. You don't even have to remember all the words. You can say POD and POC all that. Or "all those weird words Julie says" and it'll still work. :-)

Here's the whole thing all together:
What do I love about creating this exactly as it is? All the energy that brings up, destroy and
uncreate it all. right, wrong, good, bad, all 9, POD, POC, shorts, boys, and beyonds
If you would like more clarity/information on the clearing statement, you can go to: www.theclearingstatement.com